Romance in the Dressing Room

EVERYONE HEAR THIS

2010-02-28T11:56:00.000-08:00

Pack it up, pack it in.

We're beginning something a little slicker over at

http://www.romanceinthedressingroom.wordpress.com

See you over there!

-a.

Thursday Mornings

2010-02-25T09:50:00.000-08:00

It's a fact that this photo has been used innumerable times throughout the history of this blog.

But

It's also a fact that it nicely encompasses two of the great beauties of this world - coffee and note-taking.

And in that vein, let us delve into the joys of {Thursday} mornings. Whether you've got a morning off, or merely fantasize about the idea on your a.m. commute, here's a little list of à-faires for your cozy bed-in.

To-Do

Wake up at completely out-of-character time.

Hit snooze thrice - minimum. Savour those extra minutes of shut-eye. Mmmm, bliss.

Take your time getting out of bed, and either cover up your skivvies with a parka for a jaunt to your closest coffee dealer, or slip on a robe and make yourself a cuppa. Bring this coffee back to bed, and plug your lappy-tappy {child-speak for laptop} into its charger. Add to this melange a couple magazines and whatever it is you eat for breakfast {Peek Frean's Digestive Biscuits! The chocolate side is so melty-delicious with something warm to drink}.

Settle into your GoogleReader and while away the hours.

Stay cozy, chéries.

How to Perk Up

2010-02-09T15:26:00.000-08:00

Peanut M&Ms and Arizona Green Tea

Done.

"If you have any idea what's good for you..."

2010-02-07T12:07:00.000-08:00

SUPERBOWL 44!!

Fasten your seatbelts because this year's superbowl is going to kick the eyebrows off last year's.

Text by Claire Webber

It all starts at 6:25 EST, when the New Orleans Saints battle the Indianapolis Colts. Here are a few football facts for you to shout out when watching the game and wanting to impress:

Key Players

Drew Brees- Quarterback (guy who throws the football)

Saints

He was the Offensive Player of the Year in 2008, and a very skilled player.

Reggie Bush- Running back (runs with the football)

Saints

He's highly talked about and runs at the speed of light.

Peyton Manning- Quarterback of the Colts, and the love of my life.

Peyton is the best quarterback in the league. There's nothing he likes more than a challenge, and that's exactly what he'll get tonight when facing the Saints.

Matt Stover- Kicker (guy who kicks the ball through in between the yellow sticks)

Colts

He will be the oldest player to have every played in a Superbowl game.

Other Important Colts

Dallas Clark, Joseph Addai, Jeff Saturday, Pierre Garcon and Reggie Wayne.

Things to Shout

"HE COULD! GO! ALL! THE! WAY!!!" (when someone is running with the football)

"FIRST DOWN, YEAH BABY!" (when they make it to the yellow line)

"HOLD 'EM HERE BOYS!" (when the colts are playing defense)

"GO COLTS" (at any point in time)

The Saints are favoured to win tonight, but I strongly believe otherwise. The Saints have never won a superbowl and have a lot of heart and skill going into this game. As a predominantly offensive team, they will be sure to bring a great performance.

The Colts had a nearly perfect season, but go into the game as the underdogs. Their offense is top-notch and their defense will surely be able to match the Saints. With several injured players, the Colts will have to work the field tonight to make up for their losses.

My money is on the Colts and if you have any idea what's good for you- yours will be too.

Regardless of the outcome, Superbowl 44 will be a great game.

Showdown starts: 6:25 EST (7:25 for us Haligonians)

Half-time show: The Who

GO COLTS GO!!!

Lookit Me

2010-02-01T07:51:00.000-08:00

Does one need to have "a look"? Is there merit in always looking not the same, but vaguely reminiscent of the last time your pretty little face popped up on the scene? Without having collected much interest on my style bank account, I'mma throw my two cents in. Maybe un peu bold or premature, but it's important to have thoughts.

Yes. Yes, yes, yes, a hundred times yes. You're not "boring" if your captive audience can quickly and easily pick up on your style trajectory. (Big fan of the word trajectory right now). In fact, it makes it easier for swarms of adoring devotees to spot you in the pulsing madness of your posh entourage.

And don't forget the elderly. Your dear old aunts, uncles, grandparents and godparents are all quite interested in you, your life, etc - and you're only making their life easier by making yourself recognizable to them. Ha!

Thirdly, it makes shopping easier. Having a "look" does not restrict or limit your style choices, it merely guides them. For instance,

"Ohh, aren't these mounds of gold chains and baubles absolutely positively to diiie for?!"

[Let us assume that, yes, they certainly are "to diiie for"]

"But since my closet is chock-full of only silvery-type accessories and bits. Ergo, save those goldilocks for the three bears.

Lastly, fashion is fickle. "Having" a look does not mean "Chaining oneself to" a look. Wear what feels right.

Ha!

Here we go!

2010-01-11T13:49:00.001-08:00

Something isn't working here. As in, with this blog.

So.

It's being re-imagined. Please be patient (whoever you are) as Romance heads in a new direction. And please also look forward to a new energy being poured into something similar to this blog. Yes? Yes. Everyone wish on their next wishchip that something wonderfully inspirational and motivating invades the downtown area over the next few days.

Love always,

RITDR

Cordially Cara

2009-12-16T14:13:00.000-08:00

Heading home for the holidays to meet your latest beau's parents? Yikes. Bonne chance.

For some concrete advice with a good dash of humour, Cara Lehocki is back at the keyboard again, bringing us more tips and tricks for mess-free living... or at least making an attempt at it!

How to Meet the Parents.
By Cara Lehocki

Well it’s that time of year again, Christmas tunes are playing on the radio, snow is falling outside, and our exams are finishing up as we prep ourselves for another Christmas. This season could typically be a stress free break from all things academic and give us an opportunity to bake a few treats a la Martha Stewart style. For some of us this may be the case while some of you are in mere panic mode mentally preparing yourself for what could be the most uncomfortable social setting, yes I am talking about meeting his or her parents for the first time.

So you met a cute boy or girl in one of your classes, things have been going well and guess what...they want to take you home for Christmas to meet the good old rents! I have been there and let me tell you I tried to do everything right but ended up doing everything wrong. Last Christmas I dashed around town trying to find the perfect outfit, wine, chocolates and homemade card (which I remade and destroyed four times until I was satisfied with its level of perfection). Then I drove my nerve racked self over to the boys house (for his protection we will call him McDreamy). I was in that house less than 5 minutes when I somehow managed to smack my teeth into McDreamy’s chin, split it open so deep we had to go to the emergency room and spent the entirety of the evening in the hospital getting McDreamy’s chin stitched back together(for those of you wondering we were just dancing and goofing around in the kitchen. Ha!). We missed the dinner they had made for us and we missed the Christmas concert they had bought us all tickets to. My worst fear happened- I ruined Christmas, Yes I really did.

It is always nerve racking the first time you meet the parents so follow these few tips so you don’t do what I did last year..ie-make a horrible first impression.

Dress Appropriately:
This is not the time to show off your curves or new micro mini skirt. Don’t change your style but air on the side of conservative yet fashionable.

Easy on the Wine:
One tends to over drink when they are nervous. There is nothing worse than someone asking you a question about your family and your response is “Oh yes I would LOVE some more wine”. Remember they are trying to get to know YOU, not the silly sloppy you.

Contribute to the Conversation:
It is not enough to look cute and act sweet. Show them you are intelligent and opinionated, they want to see what attracted their son or daughter to you.

Bring a Gift:
It doesn’t have to be something crazy or expensive, just a small thank you for the meal, generally wine or a dessert works well.

Stick Around:
Always offer to help clean up and try not to run away after the meal. If they want to hang out with you to play cards or watch a movie do it, plus it may help ease your nerves and allow you to feel more yourself.

Now I am clearly no expert as my invitation to McDreamys Christmas family affair 2009 is still pending, and my title to this day remains “vampire girl” which I may never be able to redeem. But Despite my self-deprecating humour all I wish to do is pass the little wisdom I have accumulated from experience to those who find themselves in similar positions.

I bid you good luck on all your Christmas pursuits!
Cara “Vampire Girl” Lehocki

Sleepover- Beauty Queen - Makeover Party

2009-12-10T18:52:00.000-08:00

Let's get nostalgic.

With finals slowly drawing to a close, girls the country over are beginning to rejoice. For it's home to the warmth and love and comfort of your mama's kitchen, and no more excuse is necessary for a slumber party. Whether you're takin' a load off from your studies or gathering the gals at your parents' place, 'tis the season of the slumber party.

A few reminders to jog your memory, if perhaps a little out of order

1- Breakfast

Waffles. Or pancakes. These are obligatory, unless you're a group of celiacs, in which case I'm sure someone in the group has a gluten-free solution up their sleeve. Waffles/pancakes are perfect with just a little maple syrup and butter, but are also the perfect blank canvas for other fruits and miscellaneous deliciousness.

Like...

bananas

strawberries

chocolate

corn (I'm serious)

bacon (again...)

nutella

icing sugar

EVERYTHING

2 - Chick Flick

Clueless is the best one. This is not a subjective statement. But I suppose if you've just recently watched it and sort of want a break, there are other options.

3 - Makeover makeover!!

A slumber party just isn't a slumber party without someone's face being plastered with makeup. Bump it up a notch by mimicking your favourite runway look/Vogue spread and busting out the camera for a photoshoot of your own.

4 - Other Obviousness

Truth or Dare

Prank Calls

Not Slumbering

Heart to Hearts

Secret Telling

...YouTube...maybe.

If you're reading this, and really care about womanhood, please send me your favourite Slumber Party tales. It'll only take you a second, I promise!!

Facebook, email, comment this post! Just do it!

Have a gorgeous night!

Ohhh come c'est belle!

2009-12-10T18:45:00.000-08:00

Check out Fulvia Farolfi's oh-so-gorgey-porgey makeup stylings.

Purrrrfect for sleepover-beauty queen-makeover-party ideas.

Cliquez ici, svp.

Singin'

2009-12-10T18:40:00.000-08:00

Baby takes to the stage this weekend in Seussial The Musical - all your favourite Seuss put to song and dance! Head off to the hinterlands (Aldershot, last stop on the Lakeshore West GO route) for Aldershot High School's musical.

Three performances- tonight, tomorrow, Saturday. See you Saturday.

-a.

All That Glitters...

2009-12-10T18:35:00.001-08:00

Proving once more that some of the very best ramblings come outta Canada's best (arguably?) city (ahem! Toronto! duh!) Kayla Huffman and Maddy Aubert have gathered the very best and most interesting bits of fashiony goodness just for you!

Take a look at Gold Faced Betty - guaranteed you'll be glad you did.

Lash Out!

2009-12-03T19:50:00.000-08:00

Looking for too-good-to-be-true, yet oh-so-natural lashes? Look no further, ladies, than your trusty Q-tip.

You heard me.
Next time you yank that mascara wand outta the tube, run the bristles over a Q-tip to remove excess, and coat your (curled!) lashes. Now, curled means with a curler. Regardless of how curly those lashes might already be, this tool is quipped as pure magic by too many pros for you to go all diva here. Suck it up and curl. Squeeze over lashes real real close to the eyelid, and repeat as many times as you can moving slowly outward.

Mascara - wipe then swipe.

Now take a lash and brow groomer to run through your lashes, just to make sure, and of course to brush out your brows. Nothing says sophistication quite like a well-kept brow.

Voilà!

Playing Spy

2009-11-27T16:33:00.000-08:00

At it again - forever peeking into the beautiful lives of the more fabulous humans among us, I've come across another home to loooooooove.

Have a quick taste of the good life at photographer Dan Martensen and model Shannan Click's home in upstate New York, as featured on TheSelby.com

Saturday!

2009-11-14T11:17:00.000-08:00

There are lots of things to do on Saturdays.
Obviously.
Try these on for size, and put some spring in your step as you hit the town tonight with the knowledge that you are a productive, forward-thinking, on-top-of-the-world kinda gal.

Homework (ew!)
It sucks. It sucks on weekdays. It sucks more on weekends. But sometimes learning is fun, and being knowledgeable is always stylish. So just crack down and do it.

Coffeeeeeeeee
Whether you need it to clear that muddled head of yours after a night of tomfoolery, or just simply parce que, coffee dates are great solo or in a pack. Should be accompanied by great thought/conversation, and consequent journalling of feelings, emotions and clever witticisms.

Or! Brush out your fringe, grab a bag, a scarf, a pair-o-mits, and head off to market! Pick up some yum-o somethings to eat for the week, add a bouquet of flowers and you're the picture of perfection. Really hammer the message into your captive audience with a radiant smile as evident above. [Photograph borrowed from Sart... obviously...]

This. Girl. Is. So. Cool.

2009-11-13T16:58:00.000-08:00

Emi Kameoka, fashion assistant for Vogue Hommes Japan, was photographed for theselby.com - and a worthier subject can ne'er be found! Check out the photographs and do a little of your own googling - this chick is très cool.

Hello, Sunshine

2009-11-11T11:07:00.000-08:00

If that bright, bright sunshine is tricking you too and you've dashed out into the chilliness, beach bag in hand, click here for some serious summery throwback tuneage. Courtesy of Laura Staios.

Tans or sandy toes, unfortunately, not guaranteed.

A Fortnight

2009-11-09T17:02:00.000-08:00

RITDR darling and amie-extraordinaire, Emma Pickard brings us some some absolutely gorgeous photographs of her absolutely brilliant idea -

It's fort time!

Keep scrolling for some serious loveliness.

Beautiful

2009-11-07T16:24:00.000-08:00

Cliquez ici, SVP!

A Rose-y Glow

2009-11-02T16:51:00.000-08:00

Neat!

Get Outside

2009-11-02T16:45:00.000-08:00

Before this happens again.

And while you're at it, pick up a few leaves to make some of these lovey little guys.

Croc Around the Block

2009-11-01T07:12:00.000-08:00

Completely outrageous.
http://www.theselby.com

Little Dumblie...

2009-10-30T16:36:00.000-07:00

Please feel better soon.
And please don't have the piggy flu.
We all love you a lot.

On The Docket...

2009-10-30T15:20:00.000-07:00

Living in squalor?
Time to clean up your act.
Take the night off from your metropolitan ways, slip into something comfy, put the coffee on, turn up the Simon & Garfunkel and give the royal bedchamber a good going-over.

Then sleeeeeeeep and bask in the tidied-up glow!

Class Act

2009-10-29T16:45:00.000-07:00

Champions of the risqué and kings of the double-take, everyone knows American Apparel is where it's at when it comes to slap-in-the-face advertising.

But the thing you must know about American Apparel is that their basics simply will not die.

If you're in the market for a tshirt to last you til your last breath or a pair of tights that'll look fresh day after day after day, look no further than your local AA. While this may sound like some sort of paid advertising, it is not. It is the gospel of fashion - follow it and be glad.

the stay-in-bed-all-day-and-hope-the-school-work-goes-away playlist

2009-10-29T08:53:00.000-07:00

When the amount of work starts to pile up around you and no amount of black coffee can keep you awake, crawl into your cozy bed and dream that it's not actually happening.
Warning: reality will set in when you wake from your dreams and everything will eventually be due.

1. Walking on a Dream- Empire of the Sun
2. When I Get Out-Danny Michel
3. Oxford Comma- Vampire Weekend
4. Pretty Lies- The Dudes
5. Long Haul- Voxtrot

Cordially, Cara

2009-10-29T08:40:00.000-07:00

Please join me in welcoming a new talent to our Romantic pages,
Miss Cara Lehocki.
Comin' at you from the East Coast (N-B, to be particular) Cara brings us a healthy dose of reason in the crazy world of DIY beauty.

A fringe to Cringe at-how NOT to cut your bangs
By Cara Lehocki

Lets forget about getting ready for a moment and remember something a little more crucial...how not to get ready, or in this specific case how not to cut your own fringe. Yes I admit this is not the first time I thought myself to be a talented hair cutter, there was that time in kindergarten, oh and grade 2.. and who can forget the 6th grade bang catastrophe...

And yet, here I am, all grown up, a mature university student...
who has yet to learn her lesson.

Living in a small town, I often find myself utterly bored and to say the least “city-sick”. The options on how to spend a Friday night are....well, less than inspiring, and one must learn to be resourceful in times of drought! Which is why I had the brilliant idea of cutting myself a stylin' straight across fringe. Right? Wrong!

I did my research (a few less than helpful YouTube videos posted by less than helpful girls who also had nothing to do on a Friday night). Borrowed someone’s scissors (which only now I realize may not have been actual hair-cutting scissors) took a long sip of red wine, held my breath and began to cut.

Where did I go wrong?
Let’s just say I did a better job in kindergarten at sculpting the perfect fringe then I did at 21 years old.

Here are some helpful hints if you ever dare to go where only professionally trained hairdressers should go....or if you have a steadier hand then yours truly.

Number one: Iris to Iris!!!! I repeat do NOT cut more hair in front of you face if it is on the OUTSIDE of your eyeballs irises. If one forgets this rule you may end up with what I like to call a “half head fringe”.
Or you could just come out looking like a bowl cut monk.

Number two: make sure hair is dry, not wet, while you are cutting - otherwise they will shrink up after they dry- ew.

Number three: Cut up. What I mean by this is after you make the initial chop at the length you so desire, remember to cut the ends of your hair with the scissors pointing up to the ceiling. This will help them look softer and more natural, unless of course you want the very blunt look which is also quite lovely.

Number four: most importantly one must remember that when they are done they are done! That means put the scissors down and leave them alone! I know the temptation to keep cutting is strong but believe me you will regret it when you cut more off than you were planning.

Lastly remember that it is only hair it will grow out. You can always pin them back if things really get out of hand!

Happy chopping!
Cara

Sweetly Siwik

2009-10-29T08:29:00.000-07:00

Gather round, friends, for a glimpse of the good life.
Jayne Siwik focuses her lens on the gorgeousness that surrounds her.

annie.

so i am not sure exactly how to contribute,

i have some photos from the last little while that are stylish and fab i think. and are very west coast.

so i have attached them.

the first one is of my beautiful sister downtown vancouver.
the second and third are of my dear friend chelsea dawn beyer, she is from calgary and she always looks great no matter what, and the last one is my roommates and i watching the sunset in a field [featured in an earlier post and removed for the sake of avoiding redundancy].

use anything you like, tell me what your vision is for west coast contributions and i will make it happen!

love jayne.

Coming Soon

2009-10-28T15:29:00.000-07:00

Best friends and positive beauties Jayne Siwik and Cara Lehocki take to the Dressing Room.

Look forward to another series of gorgeous photos from Jayne, and some words of wisdom in Cara's debut article.

Best Foot Forward

2009-10-28T15:18:00.000-07:00

Ohhhhhh the beauty of it all. Have I ever mentioned how much I love the red bottoms on Louboutins? Because I do. And we're not talking about love in the casual way. We're talking about love in the lose-my-breath-heart's-a-flutter-gives-me-goosebumps sort of way. No shoe will ever compare to their sublime, red-soled perfection. My first four-digit paycheck is the only ammo I need to march straight to Mr. Louboutin for my own little slice of shoe heaven. That, or some sort of loan.

Heels are the epitome of style, power, sexiness and a healthy va-va-voom attitude.

Add red and nobody can stop you.

Christian Louboutin Suede Ankle Boot
with Cut Out Detail
£610.00

Ah, but it has been so long!

2009-10-28T15:06:00.000-07:00

I know, I know.
I haven't posted in a while.
This statement, tired though it may be in the blogging world, is hopelessly and sorrily true. Contrary to popular belief, I have not been sitting bar-side with a pint and a good pal. Rather, I've been stompin' all over the city, hounding out the very latest in stylishness - for this blog, as well as for my new internship at SheDoesTheCity.com.

FYI
SheDoesTheCity is a modern girl's guide to all-things cityslicker and cool - Style, Fashion, Gossip, Nightlife, Parties, Sex, and Food. Starting up in Toronto, but now with Montréal and Vancouver offshoots, it's really my dream come true intership-wise. So please bear with me. I'm doing the best I can. If it's any compensation, why not get your online reading fix by clicking here?

So here's my resolution. I am going to make it my life's duty to bring you at least ONE post everyday. Even if it's a hey-hi-hello-here's a link.

Feel free to send in any stylish tip-offs.
Bonne nuit, cheries, and get that homework done!

Best Foot Forward

2009-10-14T11:09:00.000-07:00

For those days when you just can't decide if you're good or bad.
Chloé
Bow and Crystal Shoes
£910.00

How To Brunch

2009-10-14T10:42:00.000-07:00

You've set the time aside. You've chosen the resto. You've even booked the table. You're about to brunch. Welcome, dear friend, to the single most fabulous meal there is or will ever be.

When setting out on this big adventure, there are a few things to keep in mind.
1- Your budget
2- Your culinary tastes
3- Your outfit

Other than that, however, all one must worry about is having a wonderful time dining with friends. Nothing goes together so well as a good meal and good company. So, whether you're meeting for this mid-morning meal to dish the details on a certain someone, to catch up with a good friend, or simply to revel in your own glamour, tuck in and enjoy, while keeping some of these tips in mind.

1- Money
A touchy subject as usual, but always worth addressing so that you can a) have some for later and b) feel good about the way you're spending it. Choose a brunch spot that fits your wallet - you don't want to be seated only to have that awful feeling of being in over your head wash over you as soon as you crack open the menu. Google brunch spots in your neighbourhood, and their sites will usually include a menu link.
If the menu says "Sunday Brunch," you can usually expect it to be a little pricier, just because of the lovely tradition that goes along with the specifically Sunday brunch.

2- Your culinary tastes
As with before, you can always rustle up a menu on Google to check out your options before you go. But if you're an anything-goes kinda gal, head off to your chosen destination without fear. When the menu comes around, however, there are still a couple tips to be had. Depending on when you choose to dine, you will have varying levels of hunger pangs. Typically, one does not eat before brunch, but if you've left it quite late and happened to have munched on a small something to appease your stomach, you might not require an inordinate amount of food. To keep it classic, always order a mimosa. This is the brunch cocktail - three parts champagne, two parts chilled OJ - mmmmmm. Eggs benny are always a good call (That's Eggs Benedict - poached eggs on english muffins and a slice of ham or bacon, or sometimes even smoked salmon, topped with hollandaise sauce) and of course there's French Toast for all you sweet tooths. Of course, it's your meal, it's your money - order what you like. But unless you're allergic to citrus, a mimosa is just polite.

3- Your Outfit
Dictated as always by inumerable factors, this is up for debate. You're going to look good, of course, but you have to think about your company, your venue, whether or not it's a special occasion, etc, etc, etc. Blair Waldof-esque outfits are purrrrfect for society bashes, next-morning wedding party brunches, Christmas or Easter throwdowns, etc. Think bows, lace, cream-coloured garments and nicely pressed anything. If it's a more casual event - like brunch with pals, a roll-outta-bed-get-me-some-food-type ordeal - throw a neat blazer over a flouncy shirt or sweater with a slim-fitting pair of trousers and boots. Because it's morning, it's nice to remind people of the sweetness of said time of day, so mimick those rays of sunshine with light colours and lovely little touches of silk or ribbon. Parfait.

Happy Brunching!

Gobble Gobble

2009-10-09T17:44:00.000-07:00

Happy Thanksgiving, fellow Romantics.
It's the weekend of turkeys and stuffing, re-connecting with your most-loved and otherwise, lingering over cups of coffee and catching up with your Mama.

Treat your friends and family the way you've been meaning to.

Tell all those to whom it certainly applies that you are thankful for their presence in your life.

Eat your fill.

Bissoux,
-a.

Best Foot Forward

2009-10-08T19:26:00.001-07:00

Just look at that shape!!
Charlotte Olympia
Leather Platform Shoe with Suede Toe
£575.00

Best Foot Forward

2009-10-07T16:30:00.000-07:00

Today I saw a lady in a coffee shop wearing such a beautifully simple outfit - a black trench, black cigarette pants and a beautiful cerise scarf, with the most perfectly on-point shiny black shoes. Parfait!

Christian Louboutin
Patent Pumps
£375.00

Va-Va-Vignette

2009-10-06T16:42:00.000-07:00

If you feel like spending two of your minutes simply bathing in fabulosity, click here.

Best Foot Forward

2009-10-06T13:56:00.000-07:00

Acne Strap Shoe
£250.00
Mmmmmm

Love Lists

2009-10-06T13:47:00.000-07:00

Introducing Rachel Sanderson, a soon-to-be-contributor, and girl-about-town. If you've been paying attention, you'll know all about Love Lists, and if you haven't, get readin!

Rachel Sanderson loves...

dogs
chocolate
snow
chai tea lattes
canoes
fires
sun, moon and stars
bright nail polish
high heels and a nice black skirt
clean hair
a freshly made bed to nap on
the smell of clean laundry
the warmth of clean laundry
cuddling with friends when there's no space
boardgames
smell of christmas trees
non-matching christmas ornaments
smell of a cooling cookie rack
my mom's homemade food
clean socks.

Discovery!

2009-10-06T13:40:00.000-07:00

The first in a new series of posts - Surf's Up - we're highlighting some of the internet's finest spots to spend a few minutes.

Spotted! A personality too sensational to overlook- especially when it translates this well onto the computer screen. Garance Doré, with her inimitable style, fabulous photographs, and impossibly chic connections, offers up a little dish of diva to those of us in a less-than-glam living space (As in, less glam than Paris, less glam than invited to fashion week, etc, etc).

Check out her blog for some scrumptious illustrations and adorable french quips.

Bon appétit!

Best Foot Forward

2009-10-05T17:47:00.000-07:00

Rick Owens
Leather Wedge Boots
with Asymmetric Leg Opening

£700.00

Love, Love, Love

2009-10-04T12:49:00.000-07:00

A little east-coast lovin' from the ever-so-delightful and downright adorable
Claire Marie Webber.

Love Lists

Everyday, we complain about our problems. About essay deadlines or the constant maritime rain, or the inability to find a pair of clean socks. We complain. We hate things. We say FML way too much for it to be cool anymore. But what if- instead of being whiney babies- we thought of the things we loved, instead of hated?

It’s a project that I started about a year ago, called love lists. The sole purpose is to put joy in someone’s heart or a smile on their otherwise grimaced face. Here’s how to do it:

1. Get scribing material
2. Find a friend. Maybe someone who is feeling low. Or someone that you just want to make happy for a minute.
3. Ask them to list 20 things that they love. Note: These 20 things don’t have to be their ultimate favourite things on earth. Just 20 things that make them smile, or that they appreciate. The person isn’t allowed to take a very long time thinking about it. It’s supposed to be very fresh in their minds.
- Example:
Claire loves lemonade, decks, warm hot chocolate when it’s cold outside, the feeling right before it rains, Birkenstocks, etc.
4. Complete the list.
5. Read it back to them
6. Watch the smile spread across their face
7. DONE!

You can keep the list or you can give it to them to remind them of what’s important to them. I’m making a book of all the love lists that I’ve done in the past year.

So start your list making! Make someone’s day. It feels great.

Where did the romance go??

2009-10-02T18:18:00.000-07:00

Nothing to cough at- just a little weekend of tomfoolery and glamourous goodness.
Keep yourselves posted, but don't depend on a post.
I'll do what I can. But a girl can only do so much on such a busy schedule.

Love forever and always,
-a.

Best Foot Forward

2009-10-02T18:14:00.001-07:00

Balenciaga
Suede and Mesh Effect Shoes
£705.00

Best Foot Forward

2009-10-01T16:54:00.000-07:00

Christian Louboutin
Velvet and Ostrich Shoe Boot
£1,005.00

For a little va-va-voom!

P.S. Images appearing in Best Foot Forward hail from shopping paradise
Brown's.

Fore!

2009-10-01T11:53:00.000-07:00

A double-hitter! Everyone's favourite partygirl, Meredith Gillies, is back with another round of too-good-to-be-true fun fun fun. Follow her instructions for a whacking-good time around the "golf course"!

Please note RITDR will not be held responsible for any swing-and-miss incidents. To ensure you keep yourself and the general public safe and unharmed, leaving those golf clubs at home might be a good idea for the accident-prone among us.

-This activity is for RITDR gals over the age of 19-
Sorry, little ones...

Alas the golf course has closed for the summer and you simply cannot wait for next season to swing your club around. Well, forget the club at home and head to your favorite local pubs because you're going pub golfing. And here's how you're going to do it:
1. Start saving. This is going to be an expensive night, but it's totally worth splurging for a fabulous collection of memories you'll never remember.
2. Round up a massive amount of friends. The more the merrier. The faces on the bartenders who are being approached by 35 young adults is priceless and something you most definitely don't want to miss out on.
3. Out of this mass amount of people pick a team of four and make a sweet team name.
4. Pick the perfect golf outfit. Style is everything people. Showing up in a t-shirt and jeans is socially unacceptable on the pub golf course. Enjoy one night of shamelessly rocking a polo and some plaid shorts. Visors are optional.
5. Set the course. Aim for 9 holes but expect to make it to 5 (if you're lucky). Make a score card and distribute amongst the teams.
6. The rules! Par 4 is a pint of beer. Par 3 is a bottle of beer. Par 2 is a mixed drink. A stroke is a sip/chug/swig/shwail or whatever you want to call it. But lips to the liquor is a stroke so don't mess up or your team is not going to like you.
HINTS: Get the cheapest beer possible(obviously).
Get the mixed drinks without ice and with a flat mixer, this increases your chances of successfully getting a hole in one.
7. You've got the rules, you've got the money and you've got the style, so good luck and hopefully you make it past the fifth bar and all the way to the 9th.

Ps. Everyone's a winner. You're drunk with your friends; there's no losing here.

The Back In Rez Gurl Action Playlist

2009-09-30T18:58:00.000-07:00

Our resident Rez Gurl Meredith Gillies is back with another playlist. A round of applause, please, for the most fun this town's ever seen.

The perfect getting glam playlist for a comeback tour that won't stop til' May. So turn these tunes on, put your face and dancing shoes on and head out on the town.

1. You've Got the Love- Florence & The Machine
2. Mr. Someone Else- The Dudes
3. The Party- Justice
4. Sleepyhead-Passion Pit
5. Help I'm Alive Acoustic-Metric

Wearing Jeans With Cool Linings That Nobody Can See

2009-09-30T18:32:00.000-07:00

Introducing Niels Horne, our gentlemanly correspondent and Editor of our newest section on Romance In The Dressing Room... The Boys' Club. Take note as he discusses how to dress to a T (pun intended).

Here’s the thing you need to know about me: I hate fashion. Hate it, hate it, hate it. It’s the most spiritually threatening thing North of the equator next to fluorescent lighting. But let’s be clear here: when I say I hate fashion, I’m not talking about hating looking good. No, no, I love that, and it’s fun. I’m talking about that ugly f-word that has somehow come to mean "dressing to ensure that that strangers will talk to me about issues and baseball".

My goal in this portion of the auspicious RITDR blog is to help you forget about all of these ridiculous words like "fashion" and help you become you. Maybe you won’t learn anything, or maybe some of what I’ll talk about will surprise you, or change your perspective on looks, love and life as a young urbanite. I’m going to try to spend some time talking about the spirit of style as well as the act of dressing well, so there should be something in here for everyone as I continue making contributions to this fabulous blog.

Right off the bat, don’t get all hot and bothered when you find out that Abercrombie polos are the VCRs of yesteryear (sad face), or that nobody is impressed that you’ve found a shirt which depicts a rock band that never existed or the name of a beach you haven’t been to. All I want you to do is commit a few of my little ‘tipz’ to memory so you too can save someone from Huntington Beach Syndrome.

Like jumping into a cold pool of gelatinous pudding, we’ll enter slowly, and begin by discussing T-shirts and (shudder) branding (two separate and distinct things that should never go together).

Here’s the thing: if your t-shirt costs more than $28 (note that coincidentally, all American Apparel [I’m throwing up in my mouth right now and it tastes pretty bad] shirts are at least $29) you have wasted money which could have gone towards a rice bowl and half-litre of grape juice in Kensie, or 2 t-shirts which don’t make you look and feel like a douchebag. I’m clear on how I feel about A.A., right?

More generally, a shirt does not need to give the world a redundant piece of advice (Wake up before tomorrow comes...) to live by. Nor does it need to indicate the store from which you bought it; that’s why the helpful sales associate prints off a receipt when you finish shopping.

It does not need to have fake diamonds attached to the edges of bohemian handwriting on top of hearts on top of clouds on top of a baseball bat on top of more bohemian handwriting. That’s not style - it's "fashion". "Fashion" is about figuring out how to emulate someone else’s life or an experience you haven’t had by wearing a t-shirt you secretly dislike. Style, on the other hand, has more to do with lakes, pianos and your favorite cheese.

I realize I’ve just described certain types of t-shirts I think you should never wear, and you’re probably wondering what I will recommend you do wear. Sadly, that depends on you and will vary invariably from person to person. But you can’t go wrong if you just buy what feels right and ignore that ugly f-word I keep mentioning. This advice works; you just have to start closing your eyes.

Style is so fantastic. It’s like a peanut butter sandwich with bananas. Or a tan. Style is easy to understand once you start poking around, so just start looking! Remember, it’s about rediscovering the you inside of you through experimentation. It’s playing with oil paint when you’re feeling pretty angsty, or listening to music in dark rooms. It’s learning about your ancestors, wearing jeans with cool linings that nobody can see, or doing social experiments on the bus. It’s about buying a t-shirt because the green reminds you of a song you love. It’s about loving that song more than you used to because of that t-shirt. It’s about streams of consciousness.

Style is circular, and very sharp. It’s waking up on a cloudy day and deciding to emulate David Bowie and just being totally random. And that’s my issue with baseball.

Best Foot Forward

2009-09-30T11:48:00.000-07:00

Yves Saint Laurent
Suede Ankle Boot
£580

Tuck Everlasting

2009-09-29T16:32:00.000-07:00

It might be excruciatingly well-known at this point, but tucking your shirt in is not only quite hip, but very flattering. Emphasize your best assets by making the tuck-in work for you with the clothing you have.

Since the last fleeting days of summer are upon us, make the most of them with a good pair of shorts. More tuck-in tips for the chillier days to come.

Flat-tummied, narrow-waisted chicas will look stunning in shorts that rise all the way up to their waists. Add a pretty belt if you feel like it, but it's not necessary. Think flirty tank tops and cardigans, with embellishments, fancy necklines, or a sweet-as-pie necklace.

For girls with a little more flesh around the hips, who might have been frightened off of the high rise trend by a horrifying case of front-bum. Rest assured, it's not you, it's the cut. Curves are beautiful. Try lowering the rise of your shorts to sit at your waist, and tuck a shirt that fits a little more loosely, like a crisp white button-down or a peasant blouse (short sleeved). A belt is a great idea with this look.

Whatever way you wear it, you'll pull it off with a good dash of confidence, so take the time to make it work.

Best Foot Forward

2009-09-29T12:20:00.000-07:00

If you've noticed an abundance of shoes around the Dressing Room, you'll understand why it's necessary that it's about time foot candy got its own little section. Please join me in welcoming Best Foot Forward - a daily look at the world's best shoes.

And merci beaucoup, Christian Louboutin, for these gorgey-porgey "Circus" cut-out heels.
Positively drool-worthy.

A Pleasant Passtime

2009-09-29T11:49:00.001-07:00

Watching a man get dressed - like many things in life- can be a fantastic way to spend a few cozy minutes, or something you wish you'd never known happened in the first place.

So
If you've found yourself a well-suited gent with a flair for the sartorial, nestle into an easy chair or perch on a window sill and watch as the spectacle unfolds.

So much more than just a reverse-strip tease, the art of getting dressed is as much a spectator sport as a craft to be honed and perfected by us gals. Every guy's got a different routine. If your beau digs it and has obliged to your presence as he preps, watch for his best moves. There's something irresistible about straightening a tie, or slipping on a perfectly tailored jacket. Almost dance-like in their steps, boys become positive divas of the dressing room as they maneuver about their space, ironing their shirt before slipping it on, dabbing oh-so-delicious cologne on their wrists, checking their face, hair, collar once, twice, three-times'-the-charm.

So when you're invited for a private showing of the boys' club ballet, arrive punctually, arrive eagerly, and enjoy the show.

Pay attention, boys, as nobody does it better than RITDR's resident gentleman-about-town. Whether it's a wine-and-cheese or an evening of schmoozing around the bar scene, Niels Horne takes it all in stride.

Side Note: Pay close attention as the grey suit jacket moves from dressed-up and dapper to dressed-down and decadent.

It's an art.

Mmmmm

2009-09-28T17:06:00.000-07:00

Merci, Yves Saint Laurent

Let's Get Rolling

2009-09-28T12:47:00.001-07:00

It's a calculated effort, but rolling the sleeves on a button-down shirt communicates many different levels of professionalism. Here, learn what each roll of the cuff says about your outfit's aura.

The Full Length Sleeve
This means business. Mess and dirt be warned, these sleeves will not tolerate any of your kind. Perfect for chillier days at the library, dashing about the office, or hanging around the house with a pair of great jeans and a pretty camisole underneath.

The 7/8ths Tuck
Hardly a roll at all, this is a very feminine look that goes perfectly with letter-writing, a cup of chai tea, or a walk through the park to yoga class. Particularly flattering for tiny wrists and very modern.

The 3/4 Sleeve
This should hit just below the elbow and gives a scholarly glow especially when paired with a sweater rolled to just above where your roll-up ends. If you're layering a shirt, keep the top buttons open as far down as possible for an easy-breezy, pulled-together and a little bit of a sexy vibe. Button to the top for a sweetly simple look, especially lovely with a peter pan collar.

The Half
When your cuff sits on top of your elbow. This gives a very ready-to-get-at-it feel to an outfit, very youthful. Perfect for gardening, arm wrestling, day-time looks, and the Happy Hands Club.

The Short Sleeve
Not often seen in a do-it-yourself situation, but this look can also be very appealing. If you've rolled your sleeves up to your elbow and keep going one or two more times, you'll be all set for your pottery class, a good heart-to-heart, kneading bread or tricking yourself into doing your homework.

Any shorter than these, and you really should just try a tank top.

Sippin' in Style

2009-09-28T10:00:00.000-07:00

Calling all classy ladies - this ain't no flip cup tournament. It's time to learn how to suavely sip - what's our poison, you ask? Why it's none other than the quintessentially chic and oft-dreaded
Dirty Martini

Three Ways to Knock One Back

Whether it's your first attempt at this beverage or you're a veteran of the craft, follow these little tricks to add a bit of flair to your bar presence. Introducing...

The Classy Lady
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The Vixen
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The In-Over-My-Head-Get-Me-Out-Of-This-Now

Firstly: For the Sophisticated Set
A handy style for high society bashes, moments of pure luxury or for general maintenance and upkeep of a good image. Sit with your legs crossed demurely at the ankle (as Julie Andrews/the Queen of Genovia deems a-propos. Shoulders back, head held high - cocked to one side with one eyebrow raised when questioning someone's oh-so-intriguing views/opinions/commentary. If you are in a mingling situation, maintain eye contact with your conversation partner always, but cast a downward glance when sipping so as not to come off as... crazy. Once finished your sip, pop your eyes back up, give a little (really little) raise of both eyebrows and a teensy-weensy smile. Roll the liquor around in your mouth discreetly and savour the bitterness. As for those olives, do not chomp them off the little sword, or whatever else is holding them together. Leave it in your glass. Ladies slop up every last drop. It's tacky, and an activity best conducted in the privacy of the washroom, if you absolutely must.

Secondly: The Sexy Swig
This is where the fine line between low-brow and impossibly alluring really requires a great deal of focus and attention. Because you're going to pull off some unorthodox and previously shunned tricks. And you're going to do so masterfully, with grace and dignity. We said sexy, not skanky. Hold your glass in the hand you won't be using to swish and flick about as your natter away about your posh lifestyle to whichever hunk has been lured in by your charms. If you're in a not-so-conversational situation (a show, for instance) simply narrow eyelids and cast smoky glances at your beau of choice- but keep them space few and far between, and you'll have him just starving for more. When you go for your initial sip, boldly look your man in the eye for two full seconds as you slowly raise the liquid to your lips, then lower the eyelids and glace sidewards. Damn, girl. Now we deal with the olives. When you are quite finished with your cocktail, remove the sword holding your olives captive and press one olive onto your tongue, remove quickly but not like you're panicking, chew it once, twice, three times, slowly and confidently (WITH YOUR MOUTH SHUT), swallow. You'll have the gents lining up just for the honour and privilege of watching this feat of artistry once more.

Thirdly: For The Girl Who Bit Off More Than She Could Chew
Rest assured, you are not alone. Martinis are not for the feint of heart. Relax, you'll be okay. You're not going to waste your money, you're not going to be humiliated. If you simply cannot stand it, want nothing to do with it, don't even like the idea anymore, put it down on a passing tray or a table (make sure there isn't anyone dining at that specific table, however). If you've just gotta finish it, for the status, for the image, for the sheer joy of getting through it, you're going to have to pace yourself and brace yourself. The secret lies in the olive. Something of a follow-up to the main event in the previous two methods, the olive gains guardian angel status now. Get the olive in your mouth. Discreetly, but not like you're ashamed of it. Chew once, manoeuver to nestle under your tongue. Do not converse with anyone while attempting this, merely nod and smile, nod and smile. Every time you knock back your little glass of kryptonite, chew your olive. The saltiness will interupt your mouth from any real contact it could make with the liquor. Pray you've got more than one olive to work with, but make due with what you've got if the fates have turned against you.

So next time you hit the bar, raise a glass to Carrie, Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte. May the force be with you.

This Is Love

2009-09-26T19:21:00.001-07:00

Do you want to know what love is?

Do you want me to show you?

Click.

Here.

Hit the Road, Jack!

2009-09-26T16:38:00.000-07:00

Saturday mornings are market mornings. This is just a fact. So here's a foolproof plan for a lovely day of shoppin' and enjoying this beautiful city. So grab a reusable bag (or a baggie of nickels) and put on your walking shoes. Did you eat, do you have the energy? (Please click link if this pop culture reference escapes you - your life will never be the same).

Stop One : Queen Street West (Follow along with the photos - this formatting is being difficult)
Fashion Crimes and Misdemeanours is a shop that every girl worth her weight in frivolous purchases ought to visit on a regular basis. You don't need to buy anything to benefit from the positive marvelosity of it all.

Stop Two: Courage My Love (Kensington Market)
This, fashionable fashionable fashionable people, is the vintage boutique to end all vintage boutiques. Not only are the clothes simply drool-worthy and also on the cheaper end of the spectrum, but the vibe on Saturdays addictive! The whole darn family comes in to hawk their wares. Nothing like buying a racy slip and matching nightgown from a six-year-old. Keep an eye out for Dooney & Bourke bags (the real deal, no foolin') and their gorgeous postcards. A whole dollar might seem like a lot to ask, but talk to the owner and get the story of the photograph- they're from her private collection and include absolutely darling shots of her Mum.

Stop Three: That fabulous candy-coffee-tea-and-bulk-food store on the corner
You know what I'm talking about. A must for Kensington-goes. Check out the neato globes on the ceiling and make sure to stock up- this stuff is good quality, and the price is right. If you haven't had a chocolate covered blueberry, march straight there immediately and indulge. You won't go back to no almonds when you have.

Stop Three: Cheese Magic (Kensington Market)
These cheese boys are seriously cute. Seriously. Cute. Some have beards. Some have accents. Cheese is dandy, and de rigeur for a classy evening of inhaling red wine by a roaring fire, but those boys are doubly delicious. Mmmm.

Stop Four: My Market Bakery
If you like bread (i.e. everyone) or delightful pastries and things, this is the place for you. Check out their montreal-style bagels, perfect pizza dough, and day old bread (a whole bag of mixed-up goodness for a measly loonie!) -get there early though, this cat's outta the bag.

Stop Five: Trek through Chinatown and award your loyal subjects points for the funniest signs you can spot. Sample deliciousness from an array of yum-o restos, or stock up on Pocky from those basement supermarkets.

Stop Six: Picnic at your friend's house. Surprise aspect a major bonus.

Stop Seven: Find inspiration, sticky-tack to wall. Look for beautiful glossy photographs that will a) make you melt (Mr. Bass, you don't know what you do to me) b) make you ramp up the glam factor just to keep up, or c) inspire positive fashion prowess!

As if!

2009-09-24T13:52:00.000-07:00

"Dionne and I were both named after famous singers of the past, who now do infomercials"

-Cher Horowitz

Those hopelessly clueless and infinitely fabulous California girls have passed these names once more, though this time with a little more flare. Washed-up as the original Cher and Dionne may be, the latest reincarnation at ModCloth goes more along the lines of handwash and treat with care- enter the Clueless skirt, a beautiful flouncy little number with an elasticated waist that comes in blue (Dionne) and pink (duh, Cher!).

Do swing by ModCloth.com, brought to our attention just recently by the effortlessly chic Camille Jovanovic.

Needless to say, you'll be neither "fashion victim" nor "ensemble challenged" in this number.

Fashion Royalty - The Pre-Throne Life of Queen Chanel

2009-09-23T15:32:00.000-07:00

"The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud."
-Coco Chanel

Please rush out on October 2 to the nearest cinema and watch this film.
For now, watch this trailer.

Pleeeeeeeeease

2009-09-21T15:18:00.000-07:00

If you love a good shoe, if you love a great shoe, if you love a better-than-great shoe - look no further than Nicholas Kirkwood. More fittingly described as walking works of art, Kirkwood's shoes are stand-alone outfits. Matched with the simplest of clothing, they will take care of all the statement you're looking to make.

Exhibit A
*droooooooooooooooooooooool*

Care to see more?

Fall Fashion Starting Points

2009-09-21T10:18:00.000-07:00

Autumn is officially upon us, and to quote Old Navy's best, it's time to get your Fash on.
While personal taste is always in style and individuality is important, find below a few helpful starting points when putting together your fall wardrobe.

The Trench
A positive essential for those crisp autumn afternoons... or mornings... or evenings also.

The White Shirt
Obviously this one goes without says, but Banana Republic has done a fantastic job making this essential even more essential, if that were ever possible.

The One-Stop-Shop For The Frugal Among Us
Always easy on the wallet, and always particularly stylish. Also happens to be the baby sister of the link below.

The Whole Enchilada
Click on this link for a precise visual example of exactly what it is you must wear to be fashionable. Period.

Good Job Getting Dressed Today

2009-09-20T20:35:00.001-07:00

The unveiling of a new series of fashionable photographs
Good Job Getting Dressed Today
features individuals who were particularly successful in the sartorial department

Today's stylish specimen: the girl at Bay and Dundas with the positively perfect pink pumps

A Flannel Jammies Kind of Night

2009-09-20T12:19:00.000-07:00

Today is Sunday. A perfect day to wake up late and get things done early.

The Night Out

2009-09-20T11:42:00.001-07:00

The Night Out
A Start-to-Finish Guide
Part One of Three in a
Romance In The Dressing Room Series

First Things First - A Mid-Afternoon Prep Session
If you know you're hitting the town- whether it's for an evening of boisterous tomfoolery, a night of elegance and regal poses, or a class-tastic soiree of epic proportions- it's always a good idea to get a head start on your look, your mindset, your body : the image you plan on putting in the public sphere.

Your Body
Start drinking now - and we're not talkin' premature cocktails, ladies. Have an ever-present bottle of water at your side and take frequent sips- any alcohol you plan on consuming later should be at least matched with H2O beforehand. Just be sure you're not going to spend your night dashing to the loo!
Shave early - it's stressful and sometimes even painful to do so later (that burning sensation you get when you moisturize right after shaving, anyone? Yikes!) Get those gams, underarms, and nether regions ready for whatever it is you have in mind for them later on, and get an advance dose of that self confidence only a perfectly shaven limb can give.
Wash your hair - Everyone knows day old hair looks and styles best. Unless you've got a blowout in mind, of course, because that means you're going to have to have wet hair for the blowdyer part.

Your Mind
Get your gals to commit - No one - I repeat, no one- is happy when the plans are rushed. Have everyone decide on a venue, transportation, dress code and extra guests before you meet. Now, that's not to say throw spontaneity out the window entirely, but having a plan is a sign of good organization, and just so much less stressful. Stress = breakouts. Breakouts = let's not even go there.

Your Look
The most important part? Possibly. The most fun? Definitely.
Makeup - Think long and hard about this one. What will the lighting be like at this venue? How much dancing (i.e. sweating) do you plan on doing? What will others be plastering all over their faces?

If you plan on heading to a dimly-lit dive bar for some manic dancing and prancing about, keep the amount of makeup light, but have fun with it. This is an appropriate time for sparkles and colours that POP to make an appearance. False lashes might also be a neat idea.

If you're going for a more laid-back look (i.e. "Ohh, I just decided I was going out a few minutes ago, I had zero time to plan, and positively noothing to wear..."), go along the lines of your everyday makeup but apply it fresh and take your time to make it purrrrfect. Powder that nose, add a little extra noire to the eyes and shimmer to the lips and you've taken a look from day to night, easy peasy.

If it's off to the Oscars for you, it's time to pull out the big guns. Do you have the confidence, ability and desperate lack of funds required to pull the look off yourself, or is a trip to ye olde Department Store for your friendly neighbourhood Chanel counter girl to weild the makeup wand and work her magic? With enough time and patience, anyone can pull off a fantastic look, but these gals can really do a number. Just make a small purchase and ask how it is best applied, or go full tilt and kindly request that they make you up for however many gold coins they're charging. Keep three things in mind: simple sophistication, high quality goods, and a good dash of fun. To elaborate (in respective order) you want to make your look special, but keep it close to what you usually wear so you're not constantly stealing glances at yourself in each passing champagne flute. Build on what works for you and take it to the next level with the best the makeup world has to offer (combined of course with what your wallet can handle). Remember, though, to take calculated risks and enjoy the process of elevating your gorgey little blank canvas of a face to masterpiece status.

The Dress - This could take days, so will be kept simple. Follow these golden rules and you will never, ever, ever fail to impress your audience.
Wear what looks good on your body. Play up your curves, play down problem areas, highlight your best assets. Any good store clerk or friend with particularly good style is your best ally when a second opinion is necessary.
Wear what makes you feel fabulous.
Wear something you thought you never would.
Wear your dress with authority, with confience, with presence.

Wear your dress, have your cake and eat it, too.

Happy Prepping

We're Ba-aaa-ack!

2009-09-17T10:34:00.001-07:00

And have we got a treat for you!
Check back soon for a brand new batch of gorgeous photographs, how-to tips, shops to peruse, and fabulosity-a-plenty.

If you are interested in becoming a contributor for Romance In The Dressing Room, please contact me via Facebook or Hotmail.

Merci and see you soon
-a.

Shake It

2009-04-17T20:12:00.000-07:00

As Madeline F Webber slowly but surely takes over the content of this blog, I will relinquish all power gracefully and give her another spot in the Shake It circuit.

The Bunny Hop

2009-04-11T10:30:00.000-07:00

Try this one on for size:

Coat rim of glass in sugar

Splash of grenadine

Fill glass to 2/3 with lemonade

Add a shot of vodka

Fill to top with ginger ale

Garnish with a Peep

Yikes!

Shake It

2009-04-11T10:29:00.001-07:00

Happy Easter Saturday

2009-04-11T10:06:00.000-07:00

It's the day that got stuck in the middle of no-shopping-allowed(or possible) Good Friday and spend-it-with-your-loved-ones Easter Sunday. So whether you're soaking up the gorgeous weather or catching up on Zzzs from that late-night Good Friday service... have a good one!

Shake It

2009-04-10T12:13:00.000-07:00

Today's Poladroid chosen and snapped by Madeline Ferrier Webber

Get Money, Get Paid

2009-04-10T11:59:00.000-07:00

You might think that with your fancy University diploma and forty dollar tshirt you're too good for an ole-fashioned lemonade stand.

Well think again, Recessionista. A dollar is a dollar.

Hit the pavement.

Fwends

2009-04-10T11:55:00.000-07:00

Impossibly chic Burlingtonians Maddie Webber and Jordyn Rigby chronicle their adventures in friendship with a brief but darling photo shoot.

A banana makes a cameo appearance.

How To Have A Night In

2009-04-09T18:17:00.001-07:00

Cher Horowitz be praised! In this clueless queen's immortal words,

"I know it sounds mental, but sometimes I have more fun vegging out than when I go partying.

Maybe because my party clothes are so binding..."

When the bags under your eyes seem more like suitcases and your speech has been reduced to hums, haws, and yawns, it's safe to say a well-deserved break is in order.

And when it's all you can do to keep away from PhotoBooth, Sims2, Iron Chef America, or (Insert Guilty Pleasure Here), a night spent in a vegetative state is just plain old healthy.

So, ladies, throw on a pair of soft, worn-out sweats and grab your boxed sets of Gossip Girl - a night spent at the homestead is worth two in the club.

Wish I Was There

2009-04-09T14:12:00.000-07:00

Our favourite flower child channels Kerouac for the glam-gal's guide to...

The Great American Road Trip

A Checklist

Photographs and text by the inimitable Miss Haley Cullingham

Smoke cigarettes under the stars behind a gas station in New Mexico.

Drink tall cans of beer in Cheyenne, Wyoming.

Take a nap on the seawall under the Bay Bridge in San Francisco.

Read Kerouac out loud while driving east.

Find all the crazy Nevada towns that pop like neon circuses out of the desert.

Wake up in the Redwood trees.

See a Chicago sunset, and a Michigan sunrise.

Stay awake til 4 am in Brooklyn.

Hear how music sounds in California.

Buy hand-tooled leather purses in Oregon.

Make up new constellations and find maps in the sky.

Point west, find adventure.

Shake It

2009-04-09T14:07:00.000-07:00

How To Have A Pleasant Bedside Manner

2009-04-09T13:55:00.001-07:00

When the worst of the season makes you cough and sneeze, it's time to eschew all academic and social pursuits in favour of a good book, a good snooze and a good bit of TLC.

Hellooooo, nurse!

Get yourself to a doctor's office, or at least a pharmacist- don't try to cure your sickness "au naturel" - get drugged up, your body will respond.

The Eats

Puh-lenty of soup, nice and hot. Try to throw in a few noodles for some carbohydrates, and a bit of chicken for some protein. If you can't deal, though, broth is fine.

Crackers - good all the time, but especially soothing for a sore tummy.

Ginger ale- not technically something you "eat" but still necessary when ill. Blue gatorade too.

A Good Strong Cuppa

Load up on tea, baby! Keep it clear, and stick to herbal- you don't want to hinder the sleep cycle, and it's best to keep milk products to a minimum (to avoid mucus.... gross...).

H2O

Drink water. The end.

Mind your manners

When someone comes to visit you, even if you're too tired to deal, treat them kindly. They're here to make you feel better, so give them a good shot.

Kleenex, please!

Keep about five thousand boxes of tissue close at hand, the sniffles are not appealing.

The Uniform

Stylish folk get sick too, and it's possible not to look like a trainwreck just 'cause you're sickly. Sweatpants and fleece are great for keeping the warm fuzzies in, but try to change once in a while. Take an extra twenty seconds to co-ordinate pyjamas, or at least make sure your top isn't 100% see-through. You can do it!

Zzzz

Sleep as much as you possibly can, now is the only time when it is officially not rude to just nod off at the drop of a hat.

Shake It

2009-03-29T20:07:00.001-07:00

Happy 19th Birthday to the loveliest girl this world has yet to come across,

the definitively irreplaceable,

quintessentially chic,

simply adorable

Michelle Tiangco.

Home Sweet Home

2009-03-25T22:48:00.000-07:00

Photograph by Claire Webber

Her beautiful maritime neighbourhood

How To Go To Court

2009-03-24T13:37:00.000-07:00

Maybe you don't have a criminal charge.

And maybe you're not a lawyer, judge, typist or Elle Woods.

But by golly, you too can go to court!

Here are just a few tips, should you feel inclined to experience our country's vessels of law and justice.

Don't chew gum

There is no excuse for slappin' your gums in court.

Turn off your cell phone

As in, off. Vibrations make noise too and it's definitely not 'cool' with the judge that your phone goes off.

Speak quietly, or not at all

You never really know who's listening.

No committing crimes

Wrong place, wrong time.

Broke, Not Broken

2009-03-21T13:55:00.001-07:00

Just a heads-up to all you die-hard Romacers, we've got a brand new section,

Broke Not Broken

...

Tips and tricks for livin' the high life on a budget

Cleanup In Aisle Five...

2009-03-21T13:46:00.000-07:00

Saturday morning.

Known to keeners for its 7am trips to the market.

Known to normal people as 3pm trips to the grocery store.

But this time all of us slackers are coming out on top because

EVERYTHING IS ON SALE

If you're a Toronto gal and you've got a metro nearby, slip into a pair of loafers and high-tail on over. Strawberries are flying off the shelves at two boxes for a fiver, Oatmeal Crisp (God's gift to cereal lovers) is down to three bucks a pop, and you can now drink your body weight in Tropicana for a measly four dollars.

Oh, and how could anyone forget?

There are samples on Saturday.

We're talkin' ShaSha's best cookies and all-natural loafs, Lipton teas and Hershey's chocolate (who doesn't know what Hershey's tastes like...?)

In other words, if you're on a budget but would like to remain in the land of the living (i.e. a nourished, sustained individual) rustle up the gang and hit up that supermarket.

Oh.

Don't forget your reusable bag.

Queen of Hearts

2009-03-21T10:17:00.000-07:00

When you're making the long trek home from a night on Queen West, more often than not (being the cheerful bunch that you all are) it's your tummy doing most of the grumbling. So when hunger pangs hit, sink into a comfy-womfy chair or banquette at the ever-so-lovely Queen Mother Café. Not quite hidden gem status since it's a fairly well-known eatery, but my-oh-my is this place delicious.

Props for... friendly service and cream-of-the-crop ambiance (think candlelight and union jacks, chuchotte-ing customers and tall, tall ceilings)

A little miffed because... no debit!

Yum! Bumble Berry Crumble Flan (heated up with ice cream)

Café au lait (in a bowl)

Uhh... nahhh: Have yet to try anything not delicious

So much more than produce

2009-03-19T11:50:00.000-07:00

Okay, okay, Happy Birthday Barbie.

Sure, Pink Tartan reps Canada well.

Joe Mimran- and your baby, Joe Fresh - we salute you.

LG Fashion Week has swallowed the city whole, with well-dressed yuppies prowling the streets, badges dangling from the lanyards around their lucky necks as designers flaunt their best for Fall/Winter 09. And who takes the cake?

Hint: It's the same place you buy cake.

Attention all recessionistas: the grocery store is the new sample sale.

Trade in your runway for the freezer aisle, because Joe Fresh is where it's at.

If, like so many in the starving student set, you find your piggy bank getting dauntingly empty but just can't give up on the joys of beautiful clothing, it's time to start multi-tasking: slip those retail therapy sessions in next time you're picking up that box of KD- as designer Mimran puts it, "you can sneak it on to the grocery bill".

Yes, please.

Made for Walkin'

2009-03-19T11:05:00.000-07:00

Photograph by Ali Columbus

When you're livin' in the Great White North, it's all you can do to keep from getting cold feet (we're talkin' legitimately freezing digits, kids). But even if you're just trekkin' around the city, a solid pair of workboots will never let you down. Take a cue from our Marathon, Ontario correspondent Ali Columbus and slip into something like this.

Brown boots

Cost: Free

(in exchange for three months work at a thrift store)

Hindsight is always 20/20

2009-03-16T21:56:00.001-07:00

From our nation's capital: a look back at winter, with love.

A very warm thank-you to Emma Pickard for her wisdom and unendingly cool sense of style.

In the soft words of the Great Lake Swimmers, winter this year was all about 'fur and feathers, leather and scales'. In short, our lovely friends from the animal kingdom lent us some great inspiration.

Don't worry you environmental types, these things can be and were often accomplished without actually harming any animals.

So long, winter, you lovely little excuse to hit the shops.

But, no offense... we're ready for spring.

The Art of the Dinner Party

2009-03-15T19:33:00.000-07:00

With weather this blissful and friends this lovely, there's nothing like a dinner party to celebrate life. So set the table, crack the window open, and plug in the iPod- it's time to eat.

The Eats

-Strawberry and Zucchini Salad with Balsamic Vinaigrette-

-Blue corn Nachos with Green and White Onions, Cherry Tomatoes, Green Pepper, Cheddar Cheese and Coriander-

-Chocolate Cupcakes with Icing Sugar and Strawberries-

-Maple Walnut Ice Cream-

-Evening Jazz Herbal Tea-

The "Sundays-are-for-lounging-but-let's-amp-it-up-anyhow" Playlist

Rueben deGroot June Carter
Ratatat Mirando
Kiss Strutter
Belle and Sebastian The Boys Are Back In Town
The Virgins One Week of Danger

and to drink?

Pinky and the Brain

1/2 teacup white wine

(Frisky Zebra Sauvignon Blanc)

1/2 teacup pink lemonade

garnish with lemon

The Rules

Be polite.

Don't wash the dishes until tomorrow morning.

Spray the cupcake tins if you're not using liners.

Vacuum before your guests arrive.

Have a ball!

Shake It

2009-03-15T19:05:00.000-07:00

So You Think You Can SNAP?

2009-03-12T14:54:00.001-07:00

Think you have what it takes to rule the roost?

The Polaroid roost, that is...

Preeeesenting

Romance In The Dressing Room's first ever contest:

PolaRAD

We're on the prowl for the very best in Polaroid (or Poseroid, at least) photography.

Send in your very best to anniewebber@hotmail.com

Brownie points for those who have already converted theirs with the Poladroid application mentioned a few dozen posts back.

All contributions will be posted at one point or another, and the winning photographer will receive a mystery prize pack to end all m

ystery prize packs.

Mystery prize pack will be featured on the blog at a later date (for legitimacy, obviously).

Photographs must be original works.

Judging will be based on creativity, artistic merit, and general coolness.

Good Luck!

Shake It

2009-03-12T14:53:00.001-07:00

Desk Job

2009-03-12T09:34:00.000-07:00

Perhaps a shameless plug, perhaps a chance to show my artwork to the world, please excuse this breach in the strictly-third-sometimes-second-person narrative Romance usually adheres to.

I couldn't resist.

Check THIS out.

Shake It

2009-03-11T12:33:00.000-07:00

Thank-you to Maja Hipkin for this glammiest-of-glam poladroids!

Notable Quotables

2009-03-10T22:48:00.000-07:00

What the kids on the street are sayin' these days:

"There's about as much law in here as there is marble and hardwood"

(At the courthouse)

"I love him as a person, but not as a ginger"

(Out for lunch)

Truly outrageous.

Shake It

2009-03-10T22:46:00.001-07:00

A big shout-out to Madeline F Webber, who's off and away in beautiful Paris.

You've Got Mail

2009-03-10T19:52:00.000-07:00

Who doesn't love a good bit of mail?

And who doesn't love a good deal?

If you answered "Not I!" to either of these questions, check out the very latest in greeting cards, handmade and delivered to you for one measly little dollar.

Bluefish Cards

Stow Away

2009-03-09T10:53:00.000-07:00

Calling all pack rats! If you're one of those kooks who just can't let go of that bus ticket or luggage tag, rest easy in the fact that you're in good company. To avoid a situation similar to the sickeningly sloppy participants on TLC's Clean Sweep, tuck your memorabilia away in semi-organized vessels- try the ol' cigar box if you've got one kickin' around the house.

Worth Saving

Concert tickets from shows you really loved

Luggage tags or boarding passes from especially nice trips

Postcards

Photobooth photographs, Polaroids, well any photograph really...

Foreign currency (sometimes comes in handy in a pinch)

Knicks and knacks you pick up in your travels

Anything that makes you smile/laugh/cry/etc

Decidedly Not Worth Saving

Pop tabs

Wrappers (unless they're really cool)

Every business card you ever receive

Toothpicks

Greeting cards that you're not particularly attached to

Things that rot

In other words, junk goes in the garbage, souvenirs and memories go in a memory box. You can decide the difference for yourself. Happy hoarding!

The "What-The-Heck-Is-Going-On-Today" Playlist

2009-03-09T10:41:00.000-07:00

Meredith Gillies returns with a playlist to soothe your soul. When frazzling realizations lead to could-have-been nervous breakdowns, plug in your earbuds and find calm in these jams.

John Legend Lay Your Head Down
Martha Reeves Jimmy Mack
Danny Michel Tennessee Tobacco
The Velvet Underground Pale Blue Eyes
Pixies Where Is My Mind?

Shake It

2009-03-08T23:42:00.000-07:00

Sodalicious are soooo delicious

2009-03-08T10:27:00.000-07:00

Bryan Webber models spring's fashions.

We're springing forward today, and if that lost hour you're feeling a little less than ambitious in the kitchen, know you're not alone. Whether you're pinched for time or taking the day off, here's a throwback menu to get yer motor runnin'

The Meal of Childhood Goodness

for a Lazy Sunday

-Ginger ale and dill pickle chips-

-Campbell's tomato soup and a million Premium Plus crackers-

-Pizza Pops if you're still peckish-

-Chocolate Snack Pack-

Sure, it isn't dinner at the Ritz, but hey, when you're filled to the brim with organic-this and whole-food-that and all you want is something you can throw in the microwave, what's a girl to do?

Bonjour, le printemps! (We hope...)

2009-03-07T12:28:00.001-08:00

Spring is sprung

The grass is riz

I wonder where the birdie is?

The birdie's on the wing.

Well, isn't that a funny thing!

I always thought the wing was on the birdie.

Balmy short-sleeve-worthy afternoons, plenty of (March) showers, and birds chirping in the morning- just when you think it can't get any colder, spring comes along and teases you a little with a burst of sunshiney loveliness.

In honour of the charming weather: a few songs, a few stories, and a few flicks to put a spring in your step - ha. ha. ha.

The "Oh-how-lovely-I-can-finally-wear-my-trench-without-getting-hypothermia" Playlist

Sufjan Stevens Come On! Feel The Illinoise!
The Beatles Mean Mr. Mustard
Grizzly Bear On a neck, on a spit
Robert Plant & Alison Krauss Sister Rosetta Goes Before Us
Young Galaxy Swing Your Heartache

The "So-what-if-I-lose-an-hour-I'll-just-sleep-longer" Reading List

For the girl who climbs a tree and scrapes her knee

Mark Twain's The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn

For the girl who just wants to have fun

How to Walk in High Heels by Camilla Morton

For the collegiate-chic set

Joy in the Morning by Betty Smith

For the girl who doesn't have time to read

Vanity Fair

...the magazine.

Grab your beau and catch a flick- here's what's worth seeing in the theatre

One Week (if you're Canadian, it's kind of your duty)

Milk (if you haven't seen this yet, cancel today's plans. This is the movie to see)

Cinematheque (this isn't a movie, it's a way of life. For all you lucky Torontonians in the mood for something deliciously foreign, abstract, avant-garde, what have you: you don't have any excuse. Cough up the five bucks and check it out)

Smushin' Our Sorrows Away

2009-03-07T12:04:00.001-08:00

You've all heard of the Naked Chef. You're all aware that he is not, in fact, a naked man cooking food, but rather the most scrumptious of brits stripping dishes of pesky gourmet frills and bringing cooking down to the realm of mere mortals. But have you seen what the man does with ice cream?

A recipe (though some would argue it's more of a fluff piece for the cookbook) born of a childhood love affair with those bowls of frozen paradise, Smush-Ins are a do-it-yourself version of flavoured ice cream.

Click here for the original recipe, or pay close attention to the steps listed below.

The Smushing

Start with a bowl of plain ice cream. Vanilla is a very very good idea, but if you're jonesin' for an extra kick of cocoa goodness, you can use chocolate ice cream, too. Or strawberry...
"Smush" the bejesus out of the ice cream by any means possible. Some people melt their ice cream in the microwave a little, but that's pretty gross. Just go at it with a spoon for about a minute and you'll get a nice consistency.
Choose your base flavour. Berries are nice if you want to keep it light, peanut butter is great for a full-bodied flavour (just beware of friends [particularly boyfriends!] with anaphylaxis. That would be bad). Mix it in well.
Add your first 'chunk' flavour- chocolate chips, bananas, caramel chips- but don't stop there. These little bowls of heaven are certainly not limited to the dessert sphere. Why not dabble with other food groups? Sourdough-bread-and-jam ice cream sounds legit...
Keep adding and adding until you can add no more, and get creative! (The creativity factor, however, depends on what you've got in your kitchen...)
When you think you're done, through a sauce in there. Popular choices include fudge or butterscotch, but some of the best are some of the least expected. Red pepper jelly, anyone? (This could be a little out there, but jams do go nicely with ice cream. Nutella, too, obviously).
Presto! You've got yourself your very own ice cream flavour, known by no-one else on this globe, and tasted only by the lucky few you select to share with. Congratulations.

The Most Important Step: Drink. Water. You will otherwise perish.

At Last

2009-03-05T19:56:00.001-08:00

For all you hungry-mungry-romancers, a quick little somethin' to get you through to tomorrow... The Day The Blog Is Updated.

PS: This lovely photograph is brought to you by our latest contributor, Miss Maja Hipkin (pronounced My-yah, not Mahhh-Jahhh, contrary to popular belief).